Bride weds in dressing gown, slippers and rollers as 'it's what married life is like'

James McCarthyBBC Wales
News imageKennedy News Ashleigh Stanley and childhood sweetheart Jake Stanley. They are dressed in casual clothes at their wedding Kennedy News
Ashleigh Stanley did not bother with make-up when she tied the knot with childhood sweetheart Jake

A bride wed in a dressing gown, slippers and hair rollers so her new husband could see how married life was going to be.

Ashleigh Stanley did not bother with make-up when she tied the knot with childhood sweetheart Jake Stanley, 29, at Llanerch Vineyard in Hensol, Vale of Glamorgan.

The original plan was to wed in front of 150 guests and walk down the aisle to Calon Lân, a hymn her gran loved.

But because the song is religious she was told it could not be used in a civil ceremony.

So the couple, who have been together for 13 years, decided to hold an "intimate" legal ceremony before a larger celebrant service where the hymn could be used.

To take the pressure off, Ashleigh, 29, decided to keep the first ceremony relaxed, which led to the dressing gown wedding.

News imageKennedy News Ashleigh Stanley and childhood sweetheart Jake Stanley. They are dressed in casual clothes at their wedding Kennedy News
Ashleigh said she was giving Jake a "reality check" of what married life would be like

While she wore a white robe and slippers, Jake wore a black Under Armour top and shorts with white trainers.

Ashleigh said both their mothers and her daughter wore pink bridal pyjamas while their dads and brothers dressed casually.

Her family, she said, loved the look. Venue staff told them it was their first dressing gown wedding.

Ashleigh, from Merthyr Tydfil, said: "I quite liked the idea of getting married in my rollers and dressing gown.

"I said 'I'll be in my pyjamas most of my married life and this is how he sees me most of the time, so this is how I'm going to marry him'.

"I gave him a reality check of what married life would be like."

News imageKennedy News Ashleigh Stanley and Jake Stanley. She stand on the left in a wedding dress. He is on the right in black trousers, a beige jacket and waistcoat. Next to him is a small girl and a dobermann Kennedy News
The couple had a second celebration where they wore more traditional wedding garb

They were wed on what would have been her gran's 100th birthday.

Ashleigh said: "If we started to sing Calon Lân, she knew every word.

"It's a very personal song and I wanted to make sure I was walking down the aisle to this.

"We thought, 'Why don't we get married at 10 o'clock in the morning?' And then we had the celebrant service after."

For the second ceremony, Ashleigh had her make-up done, hair curled and wore a white off-the-shoulder gown.

"Our guests said how they preferred our service to any other wedding service as it was done within 10 minutes and everyone had more time to party and get on with the day," she said.